Ladies, I am having trouble figuring out how to balance my parents and in-laws time with us after the baby is born. Both my parents and my husband's parents live in different states (7 to 9 hours away). There is family tension between all of us (Will have to save that for another time) and I just don't know how to go about this. Both sets of parents want to be present for the birth and help out after the baby is born but I know they can't be in the house at the same time. It would be so much easier if one of them lived in the same town as us. Do any of you have suggestions?