I don’t like clitoral stimulation, am I weird??

I enjoy touching it very very lightly with my own fingers, and over the years I have gotten used to my trusty little vibrator. But when my boyfriend (and the exes before him) touch my clit with their fingers or tongue, it sends a chill up my spine. And not in a good way.

I’ve tried instructing them on what to do, I’ve tried experimenting alone and then showing them exactly what to do, I’ve even tried using the vibrator on myself while they use their fingers at the same time.

Does anyone else have this problem? If so how do you deal with it besides having your partner avoid the clit?

I’d love to find a solution so I can experience the same pleasure that so many women do