Why do people waste so much time into trying to be with one person and establishing a relationship and a household... and then they go and betray their significant other? I don't understand how you can purposely waste that much time and betray someone you "cared" so much for. If you do these kind of things because your unsatisfied with the relationship, why can't you simply communicate your concerns and separate different ways maturely? Children shouldn't be the reason why you "hold on" to a relationship that's already broken if you are even considering doing such a thing. How can you destroy a family in such a hurtful way. You are doing more damage trying to escape a "bad" relationship than to communicate your feelings.... Judge me all you want but I need to get this off my chest. Because I've read some of these post of how women/men go off and "enjoy" their affairs. Like come on, you are a child and if you can't communicate your feelings like an adult than you have no business in being in an "adult relationship"