I’m engaged to a guy who, in every other aspect is amazing. He’s a wonderful provider, great father, he communicates well and compromises, cares about me and loves me. We have a great time playing video and board games, baking, etc. he’s wonderful. But how do I tell him that jabbing my vagina with his fingers as fast as he can for 30 minutes and then sticking it in and cumming at BEST 2 minutes in just doesn’t do it for me? We have toys and stuff... he just doesn’t get it. He thinks we haven’t had sex because I’m pregnant and don’t want to, when it’s really because it sucks so bad that I’d rather just suffer through being horny than deal with the jab and jizz. I’m afraid to hurt his feelings because he truly is a wonderful guy. He just doesn’t listen to what I’m telling him to do. He gets offended and stops. I’m just tired of the crappy sex 😔