So I am pregnant with my second child (my s/o 1st child) so for awhile already I’ve been having to hear him make these ridiculous comments of “this is my first child so blah blah blah” let me give a quick example. The other day he mentioned that he wants our baby’s ears pierced when born, I’m not really for that so I was like well why don’t we wait til they get older and decide for themselves if that’s something they want instead of just doing it when they are born? And he goes “uhh, because this is my first child so if that’s why I want then I can do that”.

That’s just one example but he’s already thrown that bs line at me a few times thinking just cuz it’s his first child he gets to call the shots because according to him “I have a child already and this is my second one” I’m like what’s your point? A child is joint decisions, not just one sided. It really got under my skin.