My boyfriend and I are both fluent in sarcasm and have fun teasing eachother all the time. But.... sometimes what he says bothers me. What upsets me most is when he goes on about how he loves blondes or he thinks Asian women are hot. I am a very dark brunette with brown eyes. I'm thick and curvy but not a big girl. It just seems like when he mentions a certain actress or whatever is attractive that they have qualities I don't have. Idk just makes feel like crap sometimes. I've talked to him about it before but I'm not sure he really understands why it bothers me. He just says but I love you and everything about you. You're beautiful. Now im not saying i doont find other men attractive too. Im human. I might say that I think this or that actor is good looking but i ve never been like, Italian men get me so hot. Thing i dont think he gets is that all the thinghs im attracted to he is. I love really tall men with dark hair and green eyes, a good beard, broad muscled guy. I think tattos are sexy and i have a thing for the hero type who thinks hes an anti-hero but is really a great man. He is literally my entire list of qualities that I'm attracted to so its hard for me when he mentions he likes blondes because I'm far from it. Would it bother you if your man told you he was attracted to women that looked nothing like you? If you comment please be kind. He's a good guy and treats me very well. He never says this stuff to actually hurt me upset me and ever time I have taken it to heart he apologized and tried to understand. Am I just over reacting or what?