Postpartum and incontinence

TMI😅

So, y’all:

My daughter will be 2 in April, and she is my only one. I’ve not been pregnant since giving birth to her, but I still have issues with incontinence every now and then. Especially right now during cold season: if I cough too hard, I leak! Does this ever STOP? Or am I forever doomed and have to cross my legs every time I cough or sneeze??? 😩