So I live on campus at school and have my own room, & it’s great when my boyfriend visits cuz he lives at home. I’d say our sex life is pretty good, for him at least. I’ll go down on him at least twice a day when he visits, then a few other things where he always cums.

It all turns me on, he’ll suck my nipples but hasn’t gone down on me in months and that was only the second time he had. We had sex for the first time a few weeks ago, and I bled all over my sheets and it was pretty painful. Since, he’s been scared to try again or I’ve been with him while on my period (i am not interested in period sex). Otherwise, it feels like he’s pretty selfish.

When we’re apart we keep things going by sexting, etc., talking about having sex and everything else but when it comes time he says he’s scared to hurt me, while to me it feels like he’s not interested.

What do I do? 😭

P.S. I’ve tried texting him about it, saying that I’d like to be satisfied. He played dumb like the only way I can be is through sex