Can’t decide if it’s the hormones, if my husband has suddenly become a giant jackass, or I just never noticed or ignored how awful he treats me.

I’m not sure our marriage will survive the next 9 months. I’ve mentioned I think we need counseling and he just goes back to watching football or scrolling through nonsense on his phone. When I try to make an effort at any conversation I get one word responses, grunts or nothing at all.

He’s never been physically abusive, but he makes me feel stupid and insignificant. I have 2 masters degrees and a pretty good full time job but it doesn’t matter. His job is more important, his time is more important.

If we do manage to make it to the birth of our child I tell myself I will leave the second our child learns the “joke” that “Mommy’s not very smart.”