He wouldn’t listen to “No”...
I went on a date with a boy I met online yesterday. We walked around casinos, hung out, and the night ended with us making out in my car.
It progressed to oral sex, which I previously consented to. Though, when we were talking about going to my car, I made sure he knew that I wasn’t going to have sex with him.
He kept pleading with me. I said no over and over again. He said “please baby” and “give me what I want” and, after I asked him if he knew what “No” means, he said “sometimes no means yes”.
He kept kissing me, but it felt off. I didn’t want to be there anymore and I no longer felt comfortable.
So, I kicked him out of my car. I said I don’t want to do this, I want to go home. He said okay and pulled up his pants and grabbed his things and got out of my car. As I was dressing, he said, “So I guess you’re not talking to me.” I just ignored him. “It was nice meeting you, despite everything.”
I never had to do that with anyone. Every boy I’ve ever been with understand “No”. To have my hopes up with him and be let down, like I’ve been let down before, I was crying when I got home and my mom saw me and I told her everything. She was mad I went online which I understand and I guess I learned my lesson, but I want to know what you guys think.
Was I right to kick him out? Should I apologize? Should HE apologize?
Let’s Glow
Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy
Glow helps you navigate your fertility journey with smart tools, personalized insights, and guidance from medical experts who understand what matters most.
25+ million
Users
4.8 stars
200k+ app ratings
20+
Medical advisors