I’m scheduled for a second csection on 2/2 and my husband really wants me to do a tubal since they’ll already “be in there”. While I agree, I’m a bit scared. This is my second marriage and second child. I can’t imagine wanting another child, plus I am high risk due to some heart issues so another child isn’t in my forecast. Part of me gets irritated because he refuses to do a vasectomy. He can’t get the time off, etc. I’m 33. I don’t want a third child but then there’s the what if’s... what if something happens in life, etc.

Has anyone had a tubal and regretted or reversed it? Does anyone know if it makes the csection recovery worse? I think the idea of losing the ability to reproduce is just a bit scary😕