My husband works and I'm a SAHM. I do literally everything for everyone. I have such an issue with my husband for about 2.5 years now. He's not involved with our kids and myself. We've talked about this every few months when I get sick of how things are. He makes excuses and always says he'll be better. He does better for a week to 3 weeks. After that everything goes back to him just being here. I'm so tired of it and don't know what to do. Should I just learn to deal with him being like this? I don't know how honestly because I've tried. I want my children to have a dad that's involved. I want a husband who not just talk. It makes me so mad. I've experienced how I feel many times to him and as I've said he does better for a few weeks. I don't want to continue this cycle anymore.

Yes I do tell him how much I appreciate everything he does for us, how much I love him, how greatful we are to be with him.