Do you compare yourself to your bf/gf exes or people they’ve slept with?

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Not actively but it happens.

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Sometimes, but in the sense that he'll tell me about stuff they did that wasn't nice and I'll compare my behaviour to see whether I'm being a dick or not. I don't compare looks or think about how he felt about them etc, but I like to make sure that I'm not doing things that his exs would do to hurt him

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I have in the past, but don't anymore. We are married and his exes or fuck buddies didn't work out for good reasons so can't be too down on myself about them since I got the guy 😍

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I did before we were married and now I don’t have to worry about that because in the end he picked me. Plus he does a damn good job making me feel loved.

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Only because my sister was his ex... and she treated him terribly. I've been in love with him for 12 years... and my sister only dated him cuz it'd make me jealous... they lost their virginties together. I can't help but compare myself with her

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When we first started dating, yes. Partly because they were still good friends (that only lasted until he found out she had cheated on him 5+ times during their relationship), and partly because I was still in college and young and hadn’t yet realized that there’s no reason to be comparing myself to people.

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I have no idea what his ex-wife was like in bed and I have zero interest in finding out. He'll mention her on occasion in a matter-of-fact way (never "damn she was great"), which doesn't bother me at all and I'm finding myself more comfortable mentioning my ex-husband when relevant.

Do you compare yourself to your bf/gf exes or people they’ve slept with?

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