Hoping for a BFP 🤞🤞

So my husband and I have been trying to conceive for over a year now. My cycles are usually between 26-30 days. I'm on day 33 now and have had no signs of AF. I have taken a few tests but all have been negative. We used preseed for the first time this month so that is the only thing different. I'm cramping a bit but nothing major. I'm driving myself crazy wondering if I'm pregnant or not! I don't feel like I can talk to anyone about it everyone keeps saying it will happen, relax. I can't relax! It's all I think about. Any advice?