husband doesn’t hear baby 😡

No matter how many times I try and let him listen and get up for my daughter he doesn’t hear her. Ill be in a complete other room and hear her through doors and hell be still dead asleep. It drives me insane because I can never go out for a night with the girls because I worry If something would happen and he wouldn’t hear her. One time I let him cosleep with her because she was being really fussy and it was like for a half hour so I could have me time in the bath tub. Next thing I know I hear little foot steps at the door. She crawled out of bed and came to the bathroom door. Thank god she did because we didnt have a gate at the time because she was never left alone upstairs. I jumped as fast as I could out of the tub grabbed her ran into the bedroom flicked the lights on and he was still passed out. Makes me sooo angry like he cant even watch his own child. Then we get into arguments about it because I dont trust him with her. Idk what else to do. Im going crazy. Help me out mommas!!!!!