so can anybody explain ???

Question

ive been ttc for abt 5 months and out of no where he says " go to the clinic this week cuz i dont think im ready for a baby rn anyway  " and im sooo confused cuz some days he would say he cant wait for a family and out of no where he says he not ready so confused can somone tell me whats wrong with him ??? but 2 days ago he said he wants a baby like wtf do i do 😴😴

Answer

He could be worried/stressed about not getting you pregnant yet. Maybe he feels bad about it and just saying that so ya’ll stop trying? Maybe having it take 5 months his started scaring himself about becoming a parent. 
Communication is key, I’m sure the day you conceive he’ll be over the moon 🤗 sending you some baby dust xx

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Me and my husband went threw something similar with ttc baby #2. We had a plan on when to start trying and then he decided he wanted to wait even tho I was still ready and I realized it's not fair for me to push so I waited a few months and then he said he was ready 100% and was excited to start trying and I'm now 33wks! Sometimes it takes men a little longer and it's a big responsibility so it's not something that I feel you should try to force you want both ppl to be ready with no doubts

so can anybody explain ???

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