Rape or Regret

Say you’re 15 and your boyfriend is 17 convinces you to have sex by saying shitty thing to you like he would just get is somewhere else and you have sex with him. You date for 6 months and end up pregnant. Fast forward 10 years you “figure out” he raped you. If you didn’t say no to sex or during sex is his manipulation rape or is it more just regret because you got pregnant and he’s trying to be apart of the child’s life. Keep in mind you only said you were raped after he mentioned going to court to get visitation.

I should add the man in this situation is now married with 3 other children looking to have a relationship with his daughter after being kept from her for 6 years. The woman in this situation “just learned” she was raped as they had a relationship for 6 months and continued having sex after they broke up and during the first couple years of the child’s life. He was kept from the child when he got married.

*exit* Sorry this is my first post. My husband is the man in this situation and we’ve been trying to see his daughter since she was 4. We use to live one state away but now we are in the same state and looking to go to court. It all started when we asked to see her she said if their daughter said yes. Which she did. Then he got to see her twice and talk to her on the phone but the visits stopped and we mentioned court and she screamed at him on the phone saying he raped her. She said she just learned that he raped her a couple months ago. I’m guessing she watched law and order idk. Anyway my husband was a terrible child/teenager his upbringing was lacking but he is an amazing husband and father. My question is can she just decide it was rape because of one time he said he’d get it elsewhere. He didn’t say it their first time or even their last time. She ended up 15 and pregnant and bitter. It was both their fault that she got pregnant but this whole rape thing really upset my husband because he has never done that and knows it’s not okay I feel like it was said to keep him from going to court out of fear she will say he raped her.

*edit* I clearly should have waited until my husband got home before posting. I asked him when he said the whole “I can find someone else to have sex with” thing and he told me it was during an argument he was texting her and they were fighting because he was going to a party she didn’t want him to go to. They didn’t even have sex that day it’s just something shitty he said during a fight.