I have been married to my husband for 2.5 years and known him for 4.5-5. After we got married I started to see a different side to him and I am not happy. I believe he is verbally abusive and not sure what to do. One minute I can’t shovel the snow correctly and he is screaming at me that I am an idiot, than a few hours later he is I’m so sorry I’ll never do that again, we can get through this. He has never one laid a hand on me but I’m worried if I let this go on it may come to that down the road.... He says not having sex (very low sex drive) is what is making him so angry but when we did have sex often it didn’t change just didn’t happen as often. Any advise? I am turning 30 next year and want to be in love ( def fell out of love with him) and want some one to respect me and not yell and criticize me and call me a “bleeping idiot or #itch. 😢