I've been thinking this for awhile but today had kind of taken the cake. My husband is extremely sensitive. Which is not a bad thing, except for the fact I'm the exact opposite and it's driving me insane. And I know what a lot of people will say "be respectful of his feelings", "it's not that bad", but it roots from deep psychological problems from his emotionally abusive mom. And we've tried to talk through it, and he's refused counseling, he just won't help himself. Today I was washing a brush out in the sink and it turned it orange momentarily...to whcih I shouted to him "well, hope we don't need that deposit back haha", he walked by and said "I hope you cleaned it out, right?" To which I replied "no hun, I really thought orange matched it's eyes".......he got weird and wouldn't talk to me until way later. I asked what was wrong and he told me I snapped at him earlier and that he was upset......I can't do this forever.....It feels like I'm completely trying to muffle myself and it's changing me to walk on egg shells for him. Even worse whenever I conciously try to be very sweet and kind he immediately says "what's wrong, why are you talking to me like that that." And no surprise here......he won't go to counseling with me.