Opinion: is a 9-5 job best for a working parent?

Just curious

Do you think a 9-5 is the best for a working parent? I feel like society has deemed it that ‘should’ be, because it looks stable? But when you break it down:

6am-7am wake up get ready/

8am commute to work

9am arrive at work until 5pm

5pm-6pm commute home

6pm-8pm time with family?

Then you only have weekends? If you’re not already dead tired?

Not including any extra curricular activities, school drop offs and pick ups, errands, etc.

Why are jobs outside of the 9-5 structure so looked down upon? What do you all think? What kind of job/career works best for families or your family specifically?