Does a virgin feel pain when she has sex for the first time?

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I lost mine today and it wasnt painful at all...it was actually great! I think it helped that he fingered me a couple times in the weeks before so I wasn't too tight

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It was painful for me though it depends on the size maybe and lubrication. Just have to take it slow

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I lost my virginity yesterday 🙋 And from my experience I wasn't really in pain, 5-6/10 I guess. He was really gentle, and I think I was not too tight. But honestly sex will be only painful when the guy does not care for you. Just my opinion. Xx

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I lost mine a couple days ago (aged 21, male partner aged 22 although about to be 23 -for clarity, he wasn’t a virgin) and I thought it was going to be the most excruciating pain with blood everywhere (possibly one of the reasons I avoided losing it), and I also thought I’d be very emotionally distraught (feeling guilt, shame, etc). HOWEVER! Very happy to report that ~personally~ I experienced no pain whatsoever and it was all very natural (we ended having about 14-15 rounds total). Lube definitely helps especially one with aloe Vera as well as communication of what you like. It’s in my opinion, definitely worth waiting for someone your attracted to and feel safe with: my first boyfriend (last year when I was 20) I, for lack of a better term, wasn’t attracted to at all (don’t get me wrong, lovely personality and I did love him, but I just wasn’t physically attracted to him), and despite nearly giving it to him I’m really glad I didn’t as every time we tried (think foreplay, fingering, etc), it was so painful because there was just nothing there (for me)! Despite feeling silly for possibly “wasting” my youth when I could have been having sex (at least legally in my country) for 6 years now, I’m glad I waited as I would have met all the same boys and honestly I wouldn’t have wanted to have sex with any of them 😂. Anyway I realise this was very long, and obviously very personal so it might not be relatable at all, but I hope this helps! 😊

Does a virgin feel pain when she has sex for the first time?

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