Ladies I need your advice . Need some non bias opinions . So just recently my husband and I went out of state so he can get his car fixed . (His dad is a mechanic )I didn’t want my husband to drive all the way out of town by himself as it was just a one day trip and wanted to ride along for support and help drive their or back . I rented us a hotel to make sure he was well rested and we left Tuesday evening instead of my husband leaving Wednesday morning and coming back Wednesday evening . Well my husband was supposed to come pick myself and our son up from the hotel after he left in the morning to work on his car with his dad before check out . I had all of our luggage and have not heard from him and it was 30 mins prior to check out and his dad home is 20 mins away from hotel . I called husband multiple times and no answer . I then called his dad and his dad was able to answer however refused to let my husband know that I called and told me my husband was “busy” and couldn’t come to the phone . I called my husband after waiting a few more mins now it’s 20 mins till and I still don’t know what’s going on where he is . We have to check out he has the other key . Still no answer . I called his dad AGAIN and he (his dad )told me to take my luggage and wait outside of the hotel door when I explained to him I have a lot of luggage and they are heavy and I do have my 4 year old boy . His dad disregarded my concern and said he will hey there when he gets there . My husband finally came and I was upset about the mistreatment from him and his father and told him that I will have my family come pick me up as I didnt want to be around him nor his father . My husband made me upset after he had some choice words to me some explaining that his car is more important because that’s what we came to do .😒 so when we arrived to his dad house I simply got out the car and walked to the nearest location to wait for my aunts arrival ( I have family that live in the area as well ) my husband told his dad where I was , and he came to the public store and preceded to yell at me to come outside created a very unpleasant hostile environment . His dad then told me I was not welcome to his home because I did not answer his calls when he called when I left and he called me rude ( I did not want to argue with him (his dad ) and I already told MY HUSBAND where I was going . I told him rude is when I’m trying to get in contact with my husband and you refuse to let him know that His pregnant wife is calling him . He ( his father ) then told me “his pregnant wife should’ve stayed her butt home “ . So at this point I’m pissed I take my son and leave with my son . My husband LEFT me in the town we were in and went back to our home . I told my husband he his father is not allowed over our home as long as I am there and it’s only fair since he banned me from his home . We were supposed to move closer like 3 hrs away from where his father and my other family stays so we both will be close to family . My husband says that he doesn’t want to move there now because his father can’t come over . I told him that he can always visit his father since he’s closer . I told my husband his father brought that upon himself when he told me I can’t come to his home . I asked my husband who side is he’s in anyway and he replied “well if your putting in my face like that it’ll make my decision easier “ hinting that we are not on the same side . So now you ladies know the story behind the question. Lol sorry for it being long . So my question is this I am really considering separating with my husband because I refuse to be disrespected by him and his father . His father is known for having anger and attitude issues (he’s on his third marriage ) like father like son. What would you ladies do in this situation and am I in the wrong ? Again sorry for it being so long . 😬