Anyone else dilating?

Kim

Went to dr yesterday. I’m starting to go weekly. Having issues with blood pressure either high or low. Lots of Braxton and hicks. My daughter was 35 weeks my son was 36 weeks. Dr did an exam and said I was 1cm. I know she said it can be common when you have other children but with my second I didn’t start to dilate at all until about a week or less before he came at only a fingertip. I’m 33 wks 5 days now. Dr said she hopes I can make it at least another 4 weeks. I’m trying to wrap my head around all of this. Anyone else starting to dilate? Or what’s your experience?