why can't i get my BFP

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Well today I was 13 dpo. Got my BFN and I swear it gets harder and harder every month. My hubby and I even used pre seed this time and nothing! why is it not working for us? I'm not sure how many more negative responses I can't take! How long did it take you Ladies to get pregnant... and the ones that got it in the first 3 months, please just pass on by. you won't understand how this really feels.

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I can’t 100% say I know how you feel. But I’m in a similar situation.  Months and months of trying.  Others around me getting pregnant when they were recently contemplating their marriages.  My husband and I wait month after month. Just get negatives.   We were super hopeful this month.  Had spotting mid cycle, his father passed away a few days ago and I was 3 days late with AF but she showed up the next day.  All we wanted was to tell him we were pregnant.  😪 
Please know that I am here for you if you need anyone to vent to.

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Still trying too. Took us almost a year to conceive and then I miscarried. It gets so much harder as each month passes by

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I’m almost at a year now! I was crying every month when my AF came, testing like a maniac towards the end of my TWW...
But last month I told myself “it’s going to happen when it’s going to happen whether I stress about it or not.” And that honestly has helped me. Just a daily affirmation. The process is going to be as long or short as it’s going to be no matter what I do...so I can either make it a stressful and painful process or a happy and hopeful one. I stopped testing early because I realized that it wouldn’t benefit me in any way to know if I’m pregnant or not before I miss my period. 
Last cycle was the first one that I didn’t use a single pregnancy test. When AF showed, I didn’t cry. We just said “okay, we’ll get to have fun trying again this month!” My husband seems a lot less stressed out about the whole thing too. 
My sister-in-law and her boyfriend got pregnant on accident the first time and had been trying again for over a year and she finally got pregnant this month! She was also very worried, went to the doctor and everything thinking something was wrong. Every cycle there is a slim chance we will get pregnant and it truly is a miracle when we do. Sometimes it happens right away and sometimes it doesn’t. But that doesn’t mean it won’t! I am saying a prayer for both of us, but I truly believe everything happens when it should and it will be even more exciting when it happens! ❤️❤️

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I’m still trying too x

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Girl, I AM IN THE EXACT SAME BOAT! we have been trying for 6months and NOTHING. It is truly discouraging...

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