baby passed around


FTM to a 6 month old and I get so anxious and nervous when people, even family members, take my daughter away so they can hold her. They seldomly ask to hold her, but usually they just take her or say "give her to me." I specifically told my husband and father in law that I didn't want her being passed around tonight. Once we stepped inside, she was taken from me. I don't speak the language of that house so I couldn't say no. I truly thought my husband was going to pipe in, but nope.

Anu advice on how to kindly, but sternly say "don't snatch up my kid?"