Does it hurt?

Question

Hi ladies! I have a sex question. Im a virgin, and 17 years old. I have a serious boyfriend and we’ve been together for a couple months now. I’m ready to lose my virginity to him, but I’m kinda scared. Does it hurt? Did it hurt when you lost yours? Do you have any v-card experiences you’d be comfortable sharing? 
Thank you!!!!

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It doesn’t have to hurt. If you’re relaxed and sexually aroused, it shouldn’t hurt really. It did hurt my first time because I wasn’t really ready. I just kind of wanted to do it and get it over with. I recommend lube for the first time. If it hurts at first, then wait a little and do more foreplay. Try again. Don’t be afraid to do things gradually. If it takes a few times to fully do it, that’s fine. Work with fingers before penetration with his penis.

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Mine didn’t hurt. It was uncomfortable because I never even so much as touched myself so it was just overwhelming new feelings I never felt before lol

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It depends on your body and your partner’s - my first time, we did a good amount of foreplay and used lube, but it still hurt and he couldn’t go all the way in until the third time we had sex. It was okay because he was really understanding about everything and just wanted me to be comfortable. It’s important to let your partner know how you’re feeling physically, and he should prioritize your comfort.

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No. It only hurts if you're doing something wrong.

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Okay mine killed so much and I nearly cried but my boyfriend held my hand. You’re vagina is stretching and it will take a while to feel good trust me boys are lucky with that aspect but just make sure he is really gentle with you, it will get better with time

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I guess it only hurts when you're not totally sure about it and something inside of you tells you that it's wrong and that you're not ready. If you let go, relax and feel like this has to happen you don't even realize the pain... 
the first time I had sex it actually did hurt but I really didn't care because i wanted it so bad and I truly loved .. still love... my boyfriend..
so.. ask yourself and listen to yourself and you'll be good☺️😘

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My first time with my boyfriend did not hurt. Because we were both ready and arroused. But the time you know your ready is when you are comfortable with the person . It will just happen naturally !!!

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Relax and use lots of lube

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