Why is sex so painful for me, I also bleed a lot..every time. I lost my virginity almost 5 weeks ago...we’ve only had sex the day I lost it and one other time besides tonight. He hardly gets it in and I’m in so much pain. And when we are “done”...I say done but we can’t even get far enough to enjoy it..I have blood all over my thighs. Please help me. I want to satisfy my man and myself 😭

*UPDATE* I made an appointment for January 3rd..I’m so nervous that something is going to be wrong. I haven’t told my mom that I’ve even had sex before...should I just tell her and that I have an appointment, or wait and see if anything is wrong?