My boyfriend and I have been using condoms and the pull-out method consistently and correctly- I have so much anxiety (OCD to be exact) over accidently becoming pregnant that i after he takes the condom off he cleans up and puts shorts on as do I. Both of us wash our hands and dont touch ourselves until we've taken a shower (usually together, with him going first bc ya know splashes can go up). I even put a sheet down so I cant get sperm through the sheet, through my shorts, up and into my uterus. We are the most careful spermaphobic nerds to ever have sex... But for a variety of reasons I'm not on any non-barrier contraceptives yet which is causing my anxiety to worsen dramatically as my period continues to be absent and I have PMS/pregnancy (which are oddly idenitical) symptoms. After having a near panic attack yesterday, I decided I needed some sense knocked into me.

My period was supposed to start yesterday. Logically I know it's the stress causing me to me late, but I need to here it from other people. I just dont trust myself.

Please tell me I'm crazy for being worried! 🙏