Bed wetting 🤦🏾‍♀️🤭😢

I have been experiencing bed wetting since my freshman year in college in 2014 . I was sleep in bed with my now boyfriend, and we woke up to me in a puddle . That was the second time I had done so . After that I believe every year I pee’d at least 1 or twice . This year it’s been more then usual .. about 4-5 occasions I have pee’d while Asleep. idk why this happens and it’s so embarrassing, especially since I’m 21 now and living with my boyfriend . Anyone else experiencing this ? What is wrong ?

P.s. when these moment happen most of them time I have a dream I am peeing . I also realize I have frequent urination after or before it happens .