for the first time yesterday i did anal and i was soooo scared! my fiance has been asking me to do it for years now and i always tell him not its going to hurt ... and the i finally gave in... and honestly im gald i did dont get me wrong it hurt at the beginning but it was like when you loose your virginity it only hurts for the first couple secs and the pains gone anyway i was scared it was going to be a disaster after wards i was scared there was gonna be stuff on him and i was going to be embarrassed but thankfully i was scared for nothing ... what about you guys was your first time doing anal the way you thought it was ?