My husband is a marine so we only get leave to come home for two weeks once a year. We live 11 hours away from our home state and it's hard for our families to visit us financially so we don't see them often- Sometimes we get to see them twice a year if he gets extra days. Point being- it's not often. But every time we do come home he blows my side of the family and even me off to go do whatever he wants, see his old friends, and puts his immediately family before mine. Since we got here Friday night he has went and played poker for six hours (after we hung with with his parents and played a trivia game) which caused him to miss out on my families movie night. Sunday we had his Nana's Christmas party from 5-11 at night after which his parents had us come to open presents at their house. Monday we did finally get sometime with my parents to open presents and eat breakfast... and then we went to his other grandparents house For a party and spent until 10 with his family again.. Today he wanted to take his dad out to lunch (for two hours), spent time with them in Walmart as they helped us shop for baby, and then went and played basketball with his friends and just called to say he is going to play poker again.... I'm so frustrated. I brought it up and he says doesn't like spending time at my house because "it's boring" but I don't feel like that fair because he hasn't even been here or offered to do anything with my family or even just with me! It's our special vacation but he won't make time for me or for my family- so i get to sit around my whole vacation and I get to see my family while he does whatever he wants and wastes our money. Help :(