What was your turning point?

Hello Fellow Glow Community! So I decided to posy anonymously maybe because of denial or what. I wanted to ask, at what point did you decide to seek professional help regarding fertility status (checking ovaries, egg supply/health, sperm count, ect.)? Also, how do you keep staying positive when months and years go by and there are no signs of conception? And how do you keep yourself from feeling so down when you see family and friends growing their own families? ugh, totally didn't want to travel down the road of sadness. Anyway, I thought this community would be a great support! Everyone seems so supportive. I don't think I am ready to spill my concerns to close friends and family quite yet. It is especially hard when they all ask when we will have a child or states "You will be such a great mom". ( I know there are other options, but so many women state how extraordinary the experience of pregnancy can be - even with struggles, the idea of the love between two people to create a miracle being. Just Amazing!) Thank you for taking your time to read this. ❤