"People believe they are entitled to have a soulmate and that they don’t have to make a relationship work, or to even find a relationship … they think that the love of their life is just around the corner because it’s fated. They can also be very hard on their partners when they don’t act like their definition of a soulmate. People stop looking at the person they are in a relationship with for whom they really are, seeking instead to find out whether or not he/she fits into their formula of what a soulmate should be. Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more."