Does anyone else have arguments with their husbands about what to eat and how do you compromise?

We try not to eat out too often to save on cash and be healthy. We eat out maybe 1-2 time a week. Most of the time we cook. Sometimes I have to cook two different dishes because we don’t want to eat the same thing. Then other times he makes what he wants and I make what I want. This is stressful and time consuming - considering we do this three times a day and there is a newborn. It’s so frustrating!!!! Today I didn’t ask him what he wanted for lunch. He also didn’t ask. I assumed he’d be okay with whatever I made. But when he got home he had this look like “I don’t want this”. So I got mad and said “what’s that look. Did you not want this? This is why I always ask you what you want because you’re never happy with what I make. It’s always what you want.” He didnt respond and just went on with his business. Ughh