I've just started seeing this guy, not serious yet but he's really into the heavier side of Bdsm which I'm all for. yesterday though he introduced breath play into our... fun time I guess you'd call it. I had no problem with it until I went to work an hour later and I just couldn't seem to focus. he ended up coming over after work and once again fun times commenced only he was more rough and I've definitely got bruises around my beck. as a first timer in both sex and this area of play I was hoping anyone out there could give me some advice on how I should as a virgin approach this kind of play. xx