Terrible Daddy

My partner and I are in DDLG, the problem is he has next to know idea who to be a daddy and won't even research it. I've tried to help him, yet he ignores it. He's pretty much a daddy when it's convenient.

Recently I've hit a very rough, depressed hole, and I having felt I've been able to talk to him. He's been so busy, and I thought it was work but he will be out by noon and still be "too busy" or just ignores me.