In the past I scheduled an appointment for a tubal. I took my husband because I thought he’d have to sign off/approve the procedure. Turns out he didn’t have to. He didn’t really want me to go thru with it and was a shithead the whole time. Literally almost threatened divorce. Although I was on birth control anyway.

But I didn’t care. My blood pressure was too high they sent me home. Stress from the shithead husband I’m sure.

I ended up going back on the pill and started taking high blood pressure meds to get it under control.

I’m ready to have the procedure again. Since I know that he does not have to give consent and that I wont even need him to drive me home when it’s over, I’ve kinda been sneaking around to make it happen.

Called my doctor and requested a referral. Went and picked up the referral today. I know I can go to these appointments and he wouldn’t even think twice.