Tired of these constant infections!!!

Mo

Urine infection, take antibiotics, antibiotics give me yeast infection.... oh my god it never ends!! I lost my virginity to my boyfriend earlier this year, after getting the copper coil. Either it’s honeymoon cistitis or a side effect of the coil or both but it’s starting to drive me nuts. I’ve had two urine infections in the past half year, four yeast infections in the last year, and one bacterial vaginosis scare. Before this year I never had any of these infections!!!! I wish I could get the coil removed but hormones fuck me up (I get non-epileptic seizures and for some reason when I tried hormonal birth control I had a massive increase in seizures).... and my boyfriend literally can’t use condoms we tried so many times before but he couldn’t stay hard after putting it on. I don’t know what to do!!! I’m generally a healthy person, there’s not much else I can do in the way of nutrition/supplements/herbs. I’m just getting so tired of this 😔 I want to have sex without constantly getting infections. *sigh*.

Well, I let that off my chest. Any ideas? Please 😣