Honestly feel like calling it quits with my sons father

I never honestly felt like this before but its just to think that i feel like my boyfriend/babyfather is cheating on me again. He cheated before , last year when our son was just 5 weeks old, he was just always out and about and i felt like he only told me because he had a hickey on his neck. Btw i never really got an apology from that smfh no flowers no nothing; few months later he moves back in with me and we are fine, he goes through money issues because of uber and his car , parking tickets etc,. I understand he has mad shit to pay but our son comes first, and i need help when it comes to paying daycare bills, our phone bill etc. but anyways i just honestly feel like he doesnt do shit for our son or around the house, i honestly never wanted to be the type to complain but this is just annoying and on top of that i feel like hes playing me. I tell him i do his laundry and instead of a thank u he just tells me “why do u do it for me then, just leave it there ill take it to the laundry mat myself” , i cook for him , i watch our son like i just honestly don’t feel appreciated at all. I try being cute with him and he just gets in this attitude and talking to me like I’m some nigga on the streets . Sometimes i feel like after we had our son he definitely changed and honestly wasn’t ready for this at all, i definitely for sure grew up, but this man has not changed and hes just pissing me off and i just see him unattractive, i feel like im losing feelings for him and i dont want this to happen but this man just turns me off , he trys buti feel like he doesn’t want to be a dad, he doesnt do his own laundry, doesnt know how to freaking set up medical appointments etc, like i honestly feel like your significant other show their true colors after having kids; i also noticed on his snap there are plenty of girls he has as friends i know someof them but majority of them i dont know at all, and i alsways noticed hes always on his phone 24/7 but dont wanna pay the phone bill either . Idk what to do and i wish someone knew what i was going through tonsee maybe some advice ... ughhh sorry i posted alot just super annoyed and needed to get this off my chest