2nd baby gender reveal question.

So this will be our 2nd baby and we aren't sure what to do. We don't really want to just have the ultrasound tech tell us boy or girl. For my son we had a party and hit a baseball! It was super fun. This time around we aren't sure if we should have another party or maybe just do a small family get together which would still be 15 people. What have other people done for their second child? Part of me wants something small and part of me wants to do something big again. Our son is only 15 months so it's a little hard for him to be part of it.