Am I wrong?

So my fiancé and I have always had a good sex life and he usually has no problem with period sex either. Well, I’m on my period and it’s a pretty light one and I was feeling frisky and made it obvious and he stopped me and said we couldn’t do anything because we didn’t have any condoms. We never use condoms so I’m confused and ask what he’s talking about and he said it’s gross to have sex in my period unless he uses a condom so he doesn’t get blood on him, we haven’t always used condoms in the past so I’m super confused now. Then he wants me to give him a BJ, but I’m hurt now and it’s not fair that he wants me to please him but is refusing sex for me so I said no. Also he’s been kind of distant lately and spending most of our time together playing video games with his headset on so we can’t even talk. He also always gets up with me on days I work and he’s off so we can have coffee together and then he starts my car warming up for me and this morning he just stayed in bed and went back to sleep after I got up. He also keeps promising to help me clean and stuff since I’ve been working more hours then him lately but he “forgets” and I end up doing it all on my own anyways. I just don’t know what’s going on lately and when I ask him he’s says nothings wrong and just says my anxiety is acting up and causing me to think things