(Step) MONSTER IN LAW!!!

Okay. So my husbands step mom and I have had problems since I started dating my now hubby 4 years ago. She has done absolutely nothing but try to ruin everything for us. She has hacked into his phone and read all of our texts and messages (he was over 18 at the time) announced to everyone on Facebook that he had ruined his life because we were engaged, many other things, and now she is going after our daughter. She will not associate with our child if I am around , they have not seen her but twice in the last 2 months for maybe 5 minutes each time. She is only four months old and I do not want her around this negativity. She has posted pictures of her on Facebook and I have asked her not to many times because I do not have access to who does what to them or with them. She threw a fit and posted every picture on there with the caption

“I will post pictures all I want no one will tell me what I can and cannot do!”

Pictures of MY BABY. I have reported them and am in the process of getting a court order. Also included “pictures of our grand baby that we ACTUALLY got Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a>”. They have always been invited to our house to visit but would never come. They tell everyone that we keep her from them. We were at family Christmas and she held her for maybe 2 seconds because we were opening presents and I wanted to do that with my daughter for the first time! She posted that I grabbed my four month old by her arm (WHICH I WOULD NEVER DO!) on Facebook! I’m absolutely at the end of my rope. Am I being paranoid?