I’ve been sexually active for about a year and a half. I had one boyfriend who I did not get along with forever and it ended in a messy breakup.. but the sex was amazing. He took my virginity and we could have sex multiple sessions a day and it felt amazing every single time.

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Fast forward a few months later and I reconnected with another guy that I had originally expressed interest in. At the time, he wasn’t ready for a relationship and rejected me but this time he played the role in swooping me up and making everything all better. This time around, we are so much alike and understand each other and get along perfectly. He is like my Prince Charming and the one I knew I wanted all along. And he was a virgin and he wanted to have sex with me. I was okay with it. And I was okay with it for the first couple of times.

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But my god. I don’t know what happened. It feels like I’m a virgin all over again. That’s the only way I can explain the pain. I either can’t go long enough to let him finish, can only last a good four minutes, or I can’t even bare the sensation of him being in. We have tried everything. Position change, lingerie, foreplay. Everything we can come up with ourselves.

I don’t know what has suddenly gone wrong with my body and it hurts me because I love him so much.

It’s almost like a sharp, breathtaking pain only near the outside and it makes my stomach turn. It goes away within seconds or minutes of us stopping and I feel it no other times during my day ever. I self test for many BV and Yeast infections and nothing is ever positive.

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Is it mental or should I go see my doctor? Any ideas?