My life is messed

So this year saw my divorce happen even though he tells me he loves me. I got close to a work colleague who has changed and been very attentive especially with me suffering from my depression... Then another friend of mine who said he wants relations with me who keeps calling me his girl... with these two guys I don't know what to do... one texts everyday and the other will ring me and text me and I will spend time with him at his business with his employees and they say he never had a girl around him the way he is with you... I'm confused as to what I should do