so if YOUR with a woman whose NEVER been with a guy nor ever been interested in them and she happens to leave her phone unlocked you snoop find text messages with her and a guy, she's talking dirty than you confront her. she's says she isn't interested she was just planning to use him as a sugar daddy but didn't like the idea so she stopped.... is this cheating and what would you think? she's full out butch, never been with a guy and shows no interest in even getting strapped up.