How do I know it's the end of my marriage?

Honestly I don't know where to start. I've been married for five years and been in a relationship with him for ten. All my husband has done for the past six is sleep and we work the same nine to five shifts. I've told him I've felt alone because we won't stay up past ten and nothing has changed. There's no sexual relationship. I've told him how I've felt many times and nothing has changed. I feel like I'm not worth it to him. We hate each other and often fights turn physical. I just feel like there is no love left. But I can't force myself to give up. I just feel like everything is about him and everytime I try to make things work he doesn't want to. Please someone give me advice I can't live like this much longer.