What should I do?? (SRRY its long but plz read :))

So me and my bf have been together for awhile and we're both extremely comfortable around eachother.. we're both extremely horny people (which works out perfectly lols) so we engage in sexual activity like almost every time we're together but it always starts by me giving him a hand job/blowjob and then potentially leads into sex. I don't really have an issue with this cause I love pleasing him but I do kind of feel as if that he never tries to please me as much as I do for him. For example: he's never eaten me out (even though I give him head all of the time) and he only ever "fingers" me for a millisecond right before he puts it in for sex. He does occasionally touch me when we're just chilling like over my clothes but he'll never just finger me or anything like I do for him. He doesn't have much sexual experience and I've asked him before why he hasn't eaten me out and he said it feels too personal and freaks him out.... even though I'm doing the same to him. I really belive it's because of lack of experience, insecurity revolving around that and maybe like he feels like it's super personal?? Idk I of course want to respect his boundaries bc I do understand how that could be intimidating but I also want him to actually make me orgasm for once (he always finishes first when we have sex and then that's it and it's over) or at least attempt to make me .. idk if anyone else has this problem but I'm sure some of you have so please help me and tell me what I should do!!