am i weird?

i’m almost 17, and love my v card last night. i’ve been somewhat sexually active by myself for a couple of years. however have never got any pleasure from masturbation. i’ve always assumed that i just haven’t found my groove yet and don’t really know how to do it. or i just physically can’t get myself off.

last night i had sex with my bf for the first time. i didn’t orgasm (and didn’t expect to). But i did expect it to feel a lot better. in reality i could barely tell he was in me apart from the feeling of thrusting. at times it was nice, but never more than that.

so i’m just curious, is this a common experience or is there something wrong with me that i should get checked out.