so is this weird or normal?

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so I bought my first you yesterday... the only reason I bought it is because I've been sleeping with my married ex. you know how you have that one person who is always going to be a part of your life forever no matter where you are in life? that's him for me, but I feel like a bad person for sleeping with him because he is married, but he is the only man I have ever slept with. I'm not comfortable with moving on to someone new just yet and honestly I don't have time for a relationship. I only bought the toy to keep from sleeping with him and so I can still express my sexual desires without putting him and his marriage at risk. here's the part I'm wondering about. I tried to match the toy to his size, girth ETC... is that weird?  He is the only man that makes me feel anything sexual and he knows my body so Well, even to this day. he knows exactly what to do for me. I love him  dearly. am I crazy for doing that?

Accepted Answer

Ummm yes..... he’s married. Move on. That’s so creepy and if i was his wife. I would honestly wanna hurt you. Have respect for yourself and for his marriage.

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The reason of the post it’s not about judging her, fuck. You people on Eve everything it’s about judging. In her post she already said she decided to leave him and all the comment is:”he is married”.... Bunch of saints and perfect people. You girl did well and take your time you will find someone who makes you feel better, of course will know when you are ready for a relationship but yeah stay away from him because it’s not healthy at all for you. Take care of yourself and look for things which make you happy. Be strong, big hug and use your toy it’s worth it(of course it’s your money and will give you pleasure) 😂

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it doesn't fucking matter how you feel about him imagine yourself in the wives position. stop making excuses for your actions because its fucked up and you know it. break it off. its disgusting.

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To answer your ACTUAL question, I do not find it weird to buy a toy of similar size.

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MOVE ON. idc if you love him this man is married!!! you don't do that to someone! he's just as bad for sleeping with you. you need to tell her now. find a better guy, you will.

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I think people are being rude for judging you so much, but that's what we're meant to do here so... It was considerate of you to try to stop what you are addicted to. If you cared about him rather than as just a sexual partner then you'd do your best to quit for his marriage, but I understand where you're coming from

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Well he doesn't love you or you would be his wife. Stop being pathetic and move on. Sorry but it's the harsh truth.

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if he is cheating he obviously still cares.

so is this weird or normal?

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