I went off of the pill in November, got my period in December and now I’m in my ovulating days and physically everything seems back to normal. Sounds great, right? Well, this week I could tell that my husband hasn’t been as excited as I am to start trying (even though I’ve given him ample notice and my reasoning why now is the best time to start trying). So I called it off.

I’m devastated, heartbroken and upset that I’m missing my window. I know there will be other months and this isn’t an end all, but I’ve never been more ready to start. Has anyone been in this position?